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Chapter 21: Its my birthday, I'll escape if I want to.

So. It was my birthday this week! My brother Ethan has been staying with us for the past little while and so he was here during my birthday which was awesome. Steven, Ethan and our friends Amber and Devin were cooking up a storm when I got home from work we had a lovely dinner! We had pesto and goat cheese stuffed chicken breasts, cesar salad, mashed sweet potatoes with marshmallows, and apple pie with ice cream! Steven had made sure it was all my favourite things, and I was in heaven. For those of you who haven't eaten many meals out with me, if there is something with goat cheese on the menu, it will most likely be my dish of choice. And mashed sweet potatoes are never complete without toasted marshmallows! Aaaand I don't like cake but I love pie, so pretty much it was the perfect birthday meal. They sang happy birthday and afterwards we got bundled up and went to play Escape Room a few blocks from where we live. Every time I have gone to one of these I say "Man, I would love to do this with Ethan sometime. He would have so much fun, and be suuuper good at this." so getting to do this while he was around was like what I have always been dreaming of? haha. anyways. Escape Room, is pretty simple, yet very difficult. The premise is that you get locked in a series of rooms, and you need to search the room for keys and solve puzzles to be able to open the doors and "escape". The one we did this time was county jail themed, and they handcuffed us and locked us in cells! It was really fun, and to top it all off... WE WON!!! so that was amazing!!!  

After escape room, we came back to the house and Steven gave me a few birthday presents, a pair of pants I really wanted but decided not to get (he remembered and went back to buy them), a book I mentioned really wanting to read called "Mormon Feminism: Essential Writings" and a beautiful video he had made, compiling a series of birthday messages he had asked for some of my family and friends to send him. I loved it! It was just what I've been needing, being so far from so many people we love.

We decided we wanted to play card games with Ethan the night before he left. We got out the game we were sent for Christmas from our friend Sam. Its called Adventure Time Fluxx, and its kind of confusing at first, but once you get into the swing of it its super fun! You play by pretty much changing the rules until they work to let you win. The rules are constantly changing, which can make for some pretty sneaky surprising wins! You should definitely try it out, we had a blast thwarting each other's plans haha.

 

Since Ethan got here, the weather has been exceptional! the sidewalks have been clear, but there has been snow slowly falling and such. Magical! Picturesque! But the day he was leaving, I walked outside to... This. Slush-megedon. and its pretty much gone back to the norm since then. More snow fell, melted into slush, and then froze into rock hard lumpy 4 inch thick ice over all the sidewalks, with new fluffy snow masking this treacherous terrain beneath with fluffy lies.

So a couple funny things happened Thursday during our ward temple trip. (...not something you get to say too often!) We got a late start to our day, meaning we both skipped breakfast. Steven's lunch was insufficient, and then we had to leave right after work to get to the temple, and weren't able to grab dinner first. When we got to the temple, I realised I didn't have a recommend in my temple bag. Luckily since It was a ward temple night, the stake president happened to be there, and gave me a temple recommend interview in the only free room... the coat closet! haha it was pretty funny. By the time they had gotten me all sorted, the endowment session had filled up. Steven and I went to do sealings with a few other couples, and i guess the air conditioning was broken? the room was SO hot. I started seeing Steven sway, and then he made a face like he was going to be sick. he was sweaty and ashen faced. all of a sudden he just got up and said "im sorry, I have to leave, I think I'm going to be sick." and ran out! Poor guy, we think it was a combo of low blood sugar and the heat in that room. As soon as we got some food in him (thanks Jason and Gabrielle!) he was much better.

I had two girlfriends over on Friday night, and we tried to be productive but the evening quickly devolved into girl talk and It was so nice! Its been too long since I had a good girls night. Hopefully there will be more to follow. Steven spent the evening with a band in need of a drummer! There have been a few who have contacted him, but this is the first one he liked the sound of the music. Hopefully it works out, Steven would love the chance/reason to play more regularly!

I ended up working on Saturday again, things are getting tight at work but not too bad. After work I met up with Steven at Devin and Amber's place. We ate a ton of snacks and watched a movie. Pretty standard evening for us at this point, but after such a long day, I probably would have wanted to cancel on literally anyone but the Mendenhalls.

Anyways, its been a long, but wonderful week! There was so much more that happened, but I feel like that's a good enough taste of the highlights for this post. Thanks for all the birthday love this week you guys, it definitely felt special!

love,

Heather

Chapter 17: We're Back!

Hey y'all! We had an amazing Christmas, and didn't want to interrupt Christmas day with a post, so today is a double dose kind of a day. We will tag team this one, tackling one week each. First up, covering Christmas day is Steven!

This was our first Christmas as a married couple and sadly we weren’t able to make it home for the holidays. Leading up to Christmas we experienced a huge wave of emotions since it's Christmas time but we knew we weren’t going to be able to spend it with our families. For both Heather and myself, this time of the year has always been very family centred and both of our families have Christmas traditions which we knew we weren’t going to be able to take part in being so far away so we decided that we ought to take this opportunity to start creating our own family traditions and what better tradition to start with than good food.

Heather thought it wasteful to cook a whole turkey for just the two of us (I disagreed but marriage is all about compromise) so we looked for something smaller. At the bucherie the butcher suggested a roti de dinde which translates to turkey roast - It’s a turkey for 2! At Atwater Marche, our local farmers market, we picked up some fresh thyme and rosemary, some nice cheese and other goodies for our holiday meals. We also bought some oranges for our stockings - Fact: stockings must have oranges; they fit perfectly in the toe*

We made so many delicious things - to start we made gingerbread cookies on Christmas Eve from a recipe Heather's mom gave her. We had no reference of how many cookies the recipe would make so we ended up with at least four dozen - COOKIES FOR DAYS!!!! Then we put together an adorable spread of cheeses, meats, olives, crackers, strawberries, spanakopita and bubbly. We munched on that while watching Home Alone (the first one of course) and later opened one gift each before Skyping home with our families. Heather's family has a tradition where we read Christmas stories and then the nativity so we were able to join in on that. There's one touching story that makes Carol (Heather's mom) cry every time she reads it. She took on the brave task of reading it this year, that is, until she fell apart and had Mark finish it because she couldn't. The evening continued to the point where Heather was straitening my hair because her brother and I wanted to see who could look more pervy. He won (it's all in the centre part), but I looked super Asian (#heritage). After Skyping we wrapped up for the night and left out a plate of cookies and chocolate out for Santa.

On Christmas, we went to church where we got to sing in the choir to invite the Christmas spirit and then came home and made the best french toast we've ever eaten! It's all in the ingredients - if you can find some, buy real light-maple syrup. It makes all the difference. We bought some fresh bread so we could cut thick slices and then ate it with strawberries and real whipped cream. AMAZING!!!! Then we opened our gifts.

I love how Heather gives gifts. She'll listen so intently to small things I talk about and then tuck that information away for later. Ages ago I had been telling her about how sometimes when we're climbing it's a little straining on my neck to look up while belaying the whole time so for Christmas she bought me these mirror glasses that help me see the climber without having to strain my neck! So perfect! She also got me a lapel pin and some new tie clips because I told her a lot of my ties are too narrow for the one tie clip I own. For Heather, I gave her the new Harry Potter book with some fleece-lined jeans because, for anyone who knows Heather, she loves being warm more than most things so she loved them.

Then we made our roti de dinde which we made with garlic, potatoes, onions and carrots and then baked it in butter because butter ;) We couldn't find an exact recipe that we liked so we just browned the roast, covered it in fresh sprigs and threw it in the oven. Then we ate it with steamed veggies and baked mashed sweet potatoes with marshmallows. I could have eaten that whole roast by myself but I shared because love.

This was a really special Christmas. Though we were both sad that we weren't able to be with family this Christmas we had each other. Having just gotten married and moved away we don't really have a lot so it was pretty stripped down and it became an opportunity to focus on the things that matter most. On our wall we have a painting hanging which Heather made which says, "If my heart was a house you'd be home." It's a lyric from an Owl City song which made me sceptical because Owl City but I've been thinking about that a lot this holiday season. Moving out here immediately after being married has been a big challenge. We've had to learn to adapt and compromise and there have definitely been hard times but they're outweighed by the fact that I'm facing them with my best friend. It's been hard making our humble place our home but Heather has my heart so whenever I'm with her I'm home.

Tag team Heather*

After Christmas was over we got packed up for a little skiing up at Mont Tremblant, a "mountain" about an hour and a half away from Montreal. I say "mountain" because for us Rockies kids it was so little! How adorable! In all honesty though, the whole mini mountain thing is really nice on your car, and they compensate for the elevation by having these giant snow makers all over that are blowing out hot steam which turns to snow when it hits the freezing air outside. It makes for a pretty uncomfortable ski lift ride being blasted with wet snow, but its worth it to have constant fresh powder!

So in preparing for this trip, we mentioned that we would be skiing for Steven's 30th birthday to his brother Joe. Joe was SO excited for Steven, and I didn't see why he was quite so excited. You see, Steven had led me to believe he had been skiing before a few times, so it wasn't as if this was really a new experience or anything... Turns out Steven has been cross-country skiing. Not downhill skiing. NOT THE SAME. Like at all. So upon arriving at the ski hill and spending forever getting rentals and all that sorted out we finally made it to the slopes. I couldn't see a bunny hill, but since he had "totally been skiing before a few times" I figured we would be okay anyways. I knew I would probably need to give him some pointers and remind him to pizza but since he had gone skiing about 15 years earlier I thought it would come back and then we would be good to go. As it turned out, he had no idea what he was doing. but at this point, we were already up at the top of the hill, so there is not a lot to do about it but learn on the slope! Steven is a really good ice skater so I knew that he would be able to get skiing pretty quickly, but I did worry when I saw how badly he was doing at first. The very first thing you learn to do when you put on a pair of skis is to point your toes together and "Pizza" your way down the hill. It's basically a snow plow and slows you down. For some reason, Steven could not get it. He would try, get scared, hockey stop and fall onto his hip. (He has a pretty epic bruise as proof!) I could see him getting frustrated but trying to be positive. Then all of a sudden, he just got it. Not the pizza, (that took a whole day longer) but he got skiing. I was teaching him to zig-zag his way down because it was more like skating, and as soon as he got it, he really got it. We were in business! zipping down the mountain weaving back and forth. It was the craziest thing to watch as he evolved! That first run took probably 1.5 hours (instead of the 15 minutes it took after that) but after that it was pretty much smooth sailing for Steven! He has been officially converted and may never snowboard again :)

We were staying at this lovely cabin for two nights while we were in Tremblant, and it was ADORABLE. I could not have been happier. It reminded me so much of our Lake house, but smaller, Quebecois, and with heated floors haha. The owner Claude had a garden where he grew his own produce and chamomile teas. He had chickens who provided the eggs at the all organic and locally sourced breakfast provided every morning. The whole experience was so relaxing and we were so in love with it.

 

Our only contentions were the lack of wifi - which would have been fine if we had planned for it, but because we weren't expecting it we had a hard time structuring our time at first. Fortunately, we had brought some books up with us and did a lot of reading out loud together which is always my favourite way to spend our rare spare time. When we were little my mom would buy a series of books and give us kids each one of the books in our stockings for Christmas, and this year my mom sent us a box set of one of our families favourite series when we were young: The Enchanted Forest Chronicles, by Patricia C Wrede. If you want a fun series to read with your kids, I would highly recommend this one. The female characters are strong-willed, smart, kind, practical, ambitious and brave. I think it is fair to say these books shaped me in a lot of ways. They were the beginning of my feminism - hands down - and it has been really interesting to go back to them and find myself looking back off the pages. I looked up to the headstrong, witty main character. A woman who knows what she wants for her life and is fearless about asking for it. It was humbling to realise that although It wasn't natural for me, over time I have become a confidant, articulate person much like the ones I looked up to from the pages of the books I read as a young girl. (And as a side note - my brothers all loved these books as well, boys can love stories with strong female characters too!)

 

We had so much fun skiing, and took our time on the drive home. We were so tired we pulled over and took a nap half way home, even though it was only a 2 hour drive haha! We spent the next few days relaxing (Because we couldn't physically do much anyways haha) we ran errands and had an accidental Starwars marathon. After watching Rogue One we reeeeeaaaally wanted to watch episode 4, which we were able to do thanks to our friend Sam. (long story..) Then because we had some more time on our hands  we watched episode 5, and after that it was like well... we're almost done... we might as well make it an official marathon... haha. We did that last year too, its becoming a bit of a tradition.

Speaking of traditions, New Years is actually a pretty special holiday for us. We have known each other for years and knew of each other for longer than that through friends of friends. It took a long time for us to realise we should go on a date and even longer for that to stick, but one of the most significant nights in our early courtship was New Years eve. It happened very spontaneously, we ended going dancing with two friends. After dancing for a few hours our companions were tired, while we wanted to watch a movie... So we dropped them off and proceeded to have a spontaneous unforgettable adventure. Since we watched a movie together that year, last year we watched jaws, and this year we watched 2001: A Space Odyssy.

After our movie we went to Vieux Port where they were having a giant dance party/concert thing. It was incredibly fun. We didn't really know any of the acts, but they were all quite short so if you weren't into one, it was only like 15 minutes long anyways! There were like at least 4 acts an hour for two hours I would guess. The funniest was near the end when the performers started doing what we are assuming were traditional Quebecois songs? About drinking and about meat pies? Anyways it was amazing and hilarious, and some of the performers had lyric sheets, while the audience knew all the words! it was awesome.

The highlights of the night were the giant Coca-cola bottle ice sculpture, free cokes and light stick things, and CONFETTI CANNONS. Here's a picture of me loosing my mind. Really all you need to know how I felt about that magical moment. We watched the fireworks and had a kiss at midnight, and pretty much its gonna be a terrific year. 2016 may have been bad for some things, but for me and Steven it has been one heck of a year to beat.

Cheers, Merry Christmas, Happy New Years

Heather and Steven