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Chapter 33: Our home and native land

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Firstly - as a heads up, our blog will be moving and the format will be changing in the next few weeks! We are starting to do more design and film freelance in our spare time, and are building out a website. We will be moving the blog over there so we aren't dealing with two different platforms and hosts and stuff. Anywayyyyss will keep you posted. sooo... I CHOPPED MY HAIR! Its been so hot and heavy, and I finally couldnt handle it. Ill probably go even shorter in the future, but I am LOVING it sofar :) I'm pretty impulsive when it comes to huge haircuts, and have done them myself a time or two. I just gotta do it before i loose my nerve! And after the fiasco with that hair salon here last time I was more comfortable doing it myself than if i had gone somewhere. Poor Steven was asleep and I woke him up to make sure the back was even. He was like "...what? wwhat? man this is alot to wake up to" hahah!

This week my department went out and did some laser tag after work one day. We had pizza and played some games and then went and shot each other for an hour and a half haha. I had never played laser tag before and it was a blast!! More fun than paintball because 1. you have unlimited shots 2. lots more hiding places 3. IT DOESNT HURT I was feeling pretty good about it by the last round, and afterwards looking at the scoreboard I was shocked to see I had ranked 4th out of 33! HOW. just how. haha, I brought home the scorecard because I suspected (correctly) that Steven would have reservations believing I had done so well.

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Steven did some filming for a wedding this weekend. He had a blast, and was super inspired by the couple. Apparently he teared up during the vows, because the groom said "Thank you for showing me the purest form of love I've ever experienced." swooooon! What a lucky lady is that bride! And I'm pretty lucky too to have a guy who tears up at stuff like that or gets the feels during the movie Little Women. (I was practically sobbing during that movie. Seriously watch it its amazing. I had nearly forgotten how much I loved it)

So last week we were too tired to write because Canada Day! Since it was Canada 150 we decided what better way to spend it than by driving down to Ottowa and spending it near parlament hill! It was a pretty crazy day, full of people and noise and RAIN, and we didnt get to bed until about 3am, but it was worth it!

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We spent the day eating delicious sandwiches, and having a picnic with the friends we had driven down with Janelle and Ben. There were characters everywhere, which makes sense because there were HUNDREDS OF THOUSANDS of people there! yeah.

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We saw the changing of the guards or something? I dunno what it was but it was very funny because Steven was so intent on taking these pictures, and i was intent on putting my poncho away in its tiny bag that we didn't notice the police had asked everyone to stand back about 5 meters from the guards in a semi-circle. Steven and I were the lone people right up close haha!

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Over where the stages were set up, the grass was so saturated with water from how wet it has been here that all the people walking on the lawns just churned it into super deep mud. We had set up our blankets a where we found some dry ground, but i still ended up with muddy chucks dang it.

We listened to music and wandered around. I got a tiny sunburn somehow. We were watching some threatening clouds roll in around 8pm, and I was marveling over how fast they were going! It was insane. They were looking pretty menacing too, but when they got to us and nothing happened, no rain or anything, the boys decided to go find a bathroom. not 5 minutes after they left, the heavens opened and suddenly we were under water. We scrambled to get our rain poncho's on (yes we had ponchos and they were the best money I've ever spent. shout out to Janelle for that stroke of genius) We got all our backpacks and camera gear in a pile and then we strategically tented ourselves in our ponchos so everything was under us. Like we were a two headed poncho chicken roosting on some very expensive camera eggs. We were there for at least half an hour until the rain slowed some, but the rain didn't stop for close to two hours we think. Steven and I ran off to find some hot chocolate and a beavers tale to feel better about the wet and the not having anything to do until fireworks. the fireworks were well worth the storm and the rain. We had an incredible spot thanks to Janelle and Ben! Ben went to the car early, for a catnap, and we eventually made our way over to him too. I LOVE FIREWORKS. They are such sparkly magic.

Anyways, that was our Canada fun, and then the rest of what we have been up to since!

Love,

Heather

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Chapter 28: Sushi and Scruples

We made California Rolls Wednesday, which was super fun! I got home as just as Steven finished getting together all the ingredients, so I put together the rolls! Not a skill I had until I dated Steven. Actually, I just remembered how I learned to make sushi! Steven and I were friends, starting to maybe date? It was a confusing time. One day we stopped by his parents house to grab something and it was right at dinner time. His mom, dad and sister were all making themselves sushi and invited us to join. I really hadn't eaten sushi many times at this point, and wasn't sure if I liked it or not, so I was pretty uncomfortable. Steven just dove in though! I stood there awkwardly while everyone was busily making their own rolls. I had NO IDEA how to do it, and Steven must have been so hungry he didn't notice how confused I was. Finally Stevens mom explained what to do, and I set about slowly making a roll. It was pretty terribly constructed, and took me so long I got much less food than the others haha. It was so funny to remember that memory and how awkward and out of place I felt. It feels like a lifetime ago, and like Steven and I are completely different people than we were then! He is so loving and conscious of me. I'm much more blunt and straightforward with him, I just couldn't see that same situation arising these days.  

We had some friends over for a games night Friday night which was really nice. We made a few pizzas, and they brought icecream :) We played our favorite strange party game "scruples" The version we own is from 1986, and it definetly shows its age. Not in looks (its in pristine condition) but in content. The game is great for getting to know people better. You have an answer card in your hand and 5 question cards. You choose the question card to ask anyone playing, but you need them to give the answer that matches what is on the answer card in your hand (yes/no/depends). The questions are things like "if your son became a stripper, would you continue to let him live at home?" "the old lady selling you her house is asking for less than her house is worth, do you tell her?" or "you leave water running while staying at a friends house and flood the bathroom. Do you offer to help pay for repairs?"

It was funny to see what different people were comfortable with and what others weren't! The game doesn't sound nearly as fun as it is when you describe it, but trust me its awesome. I did hooooribly at it, but still had a lot of fun.

I had my first full Saturday off in like a month!

It was my favourite day of the week, because Steven and I got to spend all day together. We didn't do anything very interesting honestly, like we ran errands, went to the doctors office, stuff like that. But It was so nice to spend all day together.

Saturday evening was stake conference. They spoke mostly about how to make the Sabbath day a delight. My Sabbath is far from delightful these days, so That's what we will need to work on over the next weeks. We are toying with the idea of doing these posts Monday night rather than Sunday since we always end up staying up so late Sundays. We will see if this helps over the next few weeks or if we end up just forgetting to post haha. its a pretty real possibility!

Love,

Heather

Chapter 19: Barbegazi and the rest

Honestly, we completely forgot to make a post last week. Sorry y'all! We'll do our best to get this working again. So last week was pretty tame, the most exciting thing being Barbegazi. The word Barbegazi refers to a mythical french and Swiss creature and the words Barbegazi come from is something like "barbe gelée" or "frozen beard". Its like a bearded man/Sasquatch on skis? ...That's also blue? ...Clearly we were confused about it haha. So its pretty much just a winter activity festival. We heard about it the day before we went, and thought it could be fun. Turns out, it was a super high budget event that had only a fraction of the expected attendance, so that was awesome! Short lines, and lots to do. There was a McDonalds cart giving out free hot chocolate, big fire pits, arm wrestling stations, wood cutting competitions, tree tossing, and lastly and most importantly... an obstacle race! The best part? IT WAS ALL FREE.

Steven and I went with Amber and Devin, and the boys were just so jazzed about it. Stevens got a video to put here about it, it was a blast. Amber and I felt we were best serving as camera people, because of how slick the icy snow was. The boys got kinda banged up, and Steven got a bloody nose, but it was worth it.

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We went and saw a couple movies the past two weeks, which always makes for a good week. Steven found that he loves quinoa salads, and consequentially we ate a ton of quinoa haha. I like them too, but Steven was suuuper excited, because those are the sorts of things adults get excited about I suppose. quinoa. salads. Steven has been killing it at work lately. He works for a company that kind of loans him out to other companies they have under their wing. Most of them have loved his work, and been really easy for him to access what they want. But there was one company, which was a little trickier. This week they pitched an ad campaign and Steven delivered some videos to them for it and they lost it! it was an amazing response and he was so proud. He feels like hes getting the hang of their style now and what they like with their branding which is really rewarding!

In other news, this Saturday we spent a few hours watching a live stream of the Women's March on Washington. When we first tuned in, there was a man speaking and my first thought was "of course. women's march, and yet a man is the speaker. of course." but after he finished speaking, a woman got up, and She was intelligent, powerful, and articulate. Then another woman got up, and she too was formidable. Then another, and another. after about an hour and a dozen women and three men, I thought, "This is how men feel, like ALL of the time." I got really emotional and felt a commitment to be one of those women. I want to be one of those women in my community, in my work and in my church. At work, there are more women than I expected, and more women in positions of power than I expected. I have been working on a show that has powerful women in it. It has been a thrill and a blessing to be able to look up to such women and know that I don't need to be the first. I can walk the path that many have blazed for me.

Speaking of work, This has been a wonderful two weeks. I have finally feel like I have settled into a pattern. I was feeling like I could take on more work, so I asked for more. I was given a little, and a little more and then all at once my work load was doubled, but I held up under it! I hope I can make myself indispensable by the end of the year. I want to be the person, that when something needs to be done, and done right, you ask Heather to do it.

I don't usually come up with resolutions per se, but I for the past few years I have picked a word to focus on trying to live better through that year. Last year I wanted to be more Engaged in my endeavours, the year before I wanted to be more Disciplined. This year, my word is Commitment. Working on my commitment to my relationships with the people I love, being more committed to excellence, more committed to the things I love and making time for them. I love this practice of choosing a word because at different times in the year it means different things to me. For instance, I chose the word Engaged last year, because I wanted to work on how I scattered I was feeling. I wanted to be more engaged at work, and later in the year when Steven proposed that word took on a very different meaning. That's the most obvious example but the word does gain meaning through this year and I highly recommend it. I would love to hear if you have any words you would like to choose to focus on this year!

Love,

Heather